Bernie and Ruth Madoff in Palm Beach, Florida, before his 2008 arrest. Madoff died aged 82 in prison on Wednesday
A journalist who became prison pen pals with Bernie Madoff and befriended his wife Ruth, regularly taking her out for lunch over the course of several years, has revealed some of the disgraced family’s secrets including how Ruth was spending $57,000-a-month on the company credit card.
Bernie died in prison on Wednesday at the age of 82. He had been fighting renal kidney failure and was in a wheelchair.
It’s unclear who will now claim his body.
The Bureau of Prisons declined to comment on whether or not an autopsy has been ordered, or how and when Madoff’s body will be taken out of the prison if it hasn’t already.
‘It is the responsibility of the inmate themselves to specify in writing to the BOP, who their next of kin is and who the BOP should contact in the event of their serious illness or death.
‘In the event no next of kin is listed, the BOP will, very extensively, exhaust all means to contact any known relatives,’ a spokesman said.
He added that if no one claims an inmate’s remain, the ‘BOP will respectfully bury the remains at a local cemetery, and in accordance with local laws and guidance.’
Ruth is living is Connecticut but has been seen recently in Palm Beach, Florida, where Bernie’s younger brother Peter also lives with his wife Marion.
Until last year, when he was applying for compassionate release, Bernie was writing to journalist Jim Campbell, a radio host from Connecticut, who gained access to the family through Madoff’s youngest son Andrew before he died from cancer in 2014.
Campbell and Bernie exchanged hundreds of letters over the 12 years he was incarcerated.
He reveals them in his new book, Madoff Talks: Uncovering the Untold Story Behind the Most Notorious Ponzi Scheme in History, which will be published on April 27.
In an interview with DailyMail.com on Thursday morning, Campbell revealed that Bernie was unrepentant and only expressed remorse in their letters because his lawyers told him to.
He said he thought of his victims as ‘greedy’ and resented them.
He also shared a startling American Express statement from the family office in March 2008, nine months before Bernie’s arrest.
In that month alone, Ruth spent $57,910 – nearly double the average US annual salary. It’s unclear what she was buying. Her role was to do the books.
Peter, Bernie’s younger brother, spent $19,990. Andrew, Bernie’s youngest son, spent $7,800 and Mark, the oldest son, spent over $10,000. Bernie spent nothing.
Together, they had a joint credit line of $200,000.
Ruth previously claimed not to have spoken to him since their son Mark killed himself in 2010 because he could no longer bear the weight of the shame his father heaped on to their family.
The Madoff company credit card in March 2008, nine months before Bernie’s arrest. He spent nothing but Ruth, who was meant to be running the books, spent nearly $57,000
One of the letters Bernie sent to Jim Campbell while he was locked up in federal custody in North Carolina. He tried to ‘restore his legacy’ through Jim, he says
But she cut off contact with Campbell at the same time as Bernie did, when he was applying for compassionate release from prison last year because he was dying of kidney disease.
‘I don’t think Ruth would ever be able to completely decouple from him,’ Campbell said on Thursday morning.
On the day of his arrest, Ruth also withdrew $10million out of Cohmad Securities, another business Bernie ran, after visiting the office to give out Christmas gifts, Campbell said.
Campbell told DailyMail.com he cannot be certain if it was to help Bernie with bail, but he said he is ‘certain’ she will have done it under Bernie’s direction.
The book also reveals how Ruth was devastated by Bernie’s infidelity; he had multiple affairs, including one with a woman that lasted 16 years.
Campbell claims Bernie also seduced the wife of an investor because he hated the investor. Bernie denied it to him. He didn’t name the woman or her investor husband.
Campbell also claims to have learned for a fact that Bernie was running a $3billion legitimate trading fund alongside his Ponzi scheme. It’s unclear where that money is now. In their correspondence, Bernie still considered himself a Wall Street wizard.
Ruth now has to log any purchase she makes over $100 with the Madoff Victim Fund. It’s unclear how much money she has left.
Jim Campbell interviewed Bernie via letters from prison and Ruth over lunch for several years. His new book comes out in two weeks
Bernie had multiple affairs, including with Sheryl Weinstein – the former CFO of the Jewish organization Hadassah, who he had a relationship with for 16 years
Before he was jailed, she made a deal with prosecutors to that she’d be allowed $2.5million to pay for his legal fees.
She has since reached a settlement with a small group of some of his tens of thousands of victims to pay them $600,000.
It’s a tiny fraction of what he stole – $65billion.
Bernie also told Campbell how he convinced clients they were making money when they weren’t.
He had a file he referred to as ‘schtup’, a Yiddish word which means ‘sex’ or ‘push up’, where he’d calculate how much each client needed to think they were making every year, then he’d give them that number at year-end.
He insisted to Campbell that he could have made all of the trades he thought about but never did.
‘Jim I do realize none of these trades actually happened,’ he said.
The trades Bernie claimed to be making were larger than the entire market but somehow, the SEC failed to detect it.
They didn’t even know he had a hedge fund, Campbell writes.
‘Over 40 years, the SEC missed what could have been uncovered in a well-placed 5-minute phone call to a Wall Street trade validating entity to see such returns weren’t even possible,’ he said.
Bernie’s coziness with the regulators was a crucial component of the case.
‘He killed Mark quickly, he is killing me slowly’: How Bernie’s son Andrew blamed him for his cancer diagnosis and his brother’s suicide
Bernie’s crimes not only drove some of his victims to suicide: his oldest son Mark killed himself in 2010 and his youngest son Andrew also blamed him for his cancer coming back before he died in 2014.
Andrew was first diagnosed with lymphoma in the early 2000s but he beat it.
The disease returned in 2011, after his father’s crimes became public. Andrew blamed the stress of the scandal for his deteriorating health.
He told Campbell: ‘He killed Mark quickly, he is killing me slowly.’
Andrew told Campbell of their disgraced father: ‘He killed Mark quickly, he is killing me slowly’Mark Madoff with his wife Stephanie, right, before his father’s crimes were revealed. Mark killed himself on the second anniversary of his father’s arrest in December 2010. Andrew Madoff, right, on the Today show in 2011. He died from lymphoma in 2014. The two brothers said they never spoke to their father again after learning what he’d done
He was referring to his brother Mark’s suicide in December 2010. Mark hanged himself in his apartment in Manhattan, while his toddler son was in the home.
He had texted his wife, Stephanie, who was away with their daughter, and told her to arrange for someone to come to the apartment to look after Nicholas.
Stephanie’s father rushed to the home but by the time he got there, Mark had died. He used the the family dog’s leash.
Shortly beforehand, Mark had tried to kill himself with a vacuum cleaner chord, but it snapped under his weight.
He did not leave a suicide note. However, after his failed suicide attempt in 2009 – when he swallowed ‘handfuls’ of Ambien – he left a note for his father saying: ‘Now you know how you have destroyed the lives of your sons by your life of deceit. F*** you.’
When Bernie learned of his son’s suicide, he looked like he had been ‘shot’.
Ruth claimed in an interview in 2011 that she stopped speaking to Bernie after Mark’s death. She, Andrew and Andrew’s fiancee Catherine Hooper worked together to tell their side of the story before Andrew died. Since then, it’s unclear how much contact Ruth has had with Bernie.
Campbell said that he knows for a fact Bernie was writing to her. Whether or not she replied is not clear.
‘The whole thing is very sad, obviously. He decimated his family,’ Campbell told DailyMail.com on Thursday morning.
Mark Madoff was found hanging in his Manhattan apartment in December 2010. His wife blamed his father and the shame he felt over his crimes