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Has Online Dating Changed Relationships For Better Or Worse

Online dating has changed social interactions and interests. It’s now normal to swipe through hundreds of potential dates on your phone or laptop before making any real introductions. But does this make relationships better or worse?

A recent survey by Durex asked over 2000 people in the UK about their experiences with online dating, and what they found was surprising: 1 out of 2 people have never met up with someone from an app for a date, but 3 out of 4 say they would like to do so at some point. And only 12% were confident that their partner had not been unfaithful during the relationship. This is one reason why more than half of respondents said it’s essential to be aware that online daters are meeting with multiple people.

On the other hand, more than half of respondents also said that online daters were more likely to communicate effectively and be on the same page regarding what was expected out of the relationship. This lends some credence to the idea that apps like Tinder are giving users more confidence in their choices when it comes to picking partners, improving communication between partners, and making sure everyone is on the same page about where they stand early on in a potential relationship.

So let’s dive deeper into if online dating changed relationships for better or worse.

Social Interaction Changes

People have been complaining about how social interaction has deteriorated with the rise of new technologies for a long time. People say it’s harder to make friends and stay connected because it is easy to entertain ourselves online rather than going out into the world and moving our bodies. However, dating apps seem to be promoting real-life interactions over screen time. According to findings from Durex’s survey, more than half of respondents who had used an app for finding dates thought that apps improved their communication with other people in their lives. At the same time, only 0.8% said it ruined communication with others. These numbers show a sharp difference between those who had found love using an app versus those who hadn’t – suggesting that people who spend less time texting and more time in real life get along better with others.

Partnership Transparency

According to Durex’s survey, 1 out of 2 people have never met up with someone they found on an app for a date. However, those who did go on dates were also twice as likely to meet up regularly offline, suggesting that apps might be making suitable matches more likely while preventing bad ones from seeing the light of day (at least physically). However, only 12% were confident that their current partner hadn’t cheated during their relationship – which means 88% weren’t sure if their partners had been unfaithful or not. This is where transparency comes into play: according to findings from the survey, 85% of respondents said it’s essential to be aware that online daters are meeting with multiple people. This might also explain why more than half of respondents thought apps improved their communication.

Online Dating is Changing How People Find Dates

When you think about how old-fashioned computer dating was in the 90s, the development of mobile apps like Tinder seems extremely minute – but when you consider how fast mobile technology changes year after year, what seemed like a cutting edge idea in 2009 is now looking a bit dated as smartphones become faster and able to handle even newer technologies. But as smartphone users have learned from services like Tinder, Bumble, and sugar daddy websites, swiping right on someone has been an effective way to get matches without having to edit your profile or post pictures, which makes it even easier to meet up with people who you might not have met otherwise. As one respondent said in the survey, “It’s definitely more direct, but that doesn’t mean it’s better or worse.”

Most people surveyed were skeptical online daters are typically able to describe their partner accurately. At the same time, only 1 out of 10 believed they would be able to recognize if their partner was being dishonest about something important in a conversation. This further supports the idea that Durex’s survey confirmed how important it is for people to communicate with their partners – but only if they are truthful.

So Has Relationships Changed for Better or Worse?

Moving away from the question of whether online dating has affected how people find other people to date, let’s focus on whether relationships have become better or worse. The survey suggests that there are some really adverse outcomes of using dating apps – but it also promotes the idea that transparency between partners is more common now than ever before. As long as everyone is communicating with each other, people should avoid the bad apples who might spoil a relationship for them if they’d met through traditional methods. So while research does suggest that approximately 50% of marriages in America still happen because two people just happened to meet offline and fall in love, it seems like things are changing for the better with online dating services. What do you think?

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